10 Secrets To Be A Good Mother..

By the birth of a baby, a mother is also born. Being a mother is the best feeling that any woman can ever experience. Motherhood offers many challenging responsibilities and makes it the hardest and the best job in this world. Stepping into motherhood will demand that you bring out of the best in your child.

As a mother, you are their role model. How to become a perfect mother is the one main question that makes most mothers tensed. But remember, it is not perfection, but affection matters. The most important thing that a mother can give her child is a feeling of being loved. Look forward with a great amount of optimism.

 10 Secrets To Be A Good Mother..

Start a journey of your own and most importantly the secret of becoming a great mother is being yourself. You will love them, will take care of their physical and emotional needs or will spend much of your time with them. This definitely will make you a caring mother. But when it comes to parenting, becoming a good mother needs some extra effort.

1.      Express your affection: A small hug, a gentle kiss, a loud appreciation or a simple smile can let your children know how much they are loved and cared. Love them unconditionally.

2.      Communicate: Communication is the best way to keep the bond between you and your kid strong. Make it in a clear and easy to understand way. Take time to listen to your children and share your feelings with them. Express interest when they start a conversation.

3.      Spend time with them: If you want to become a good mother, this will be the easy way to get in. Children value your presence, not presents. If you are a working woman, keep away all excuses and find out a generous amount of time to spend with your child.

4.      Be supportive:  Give them support whenever they require it.  Appreciate them loudly in their achievements and comfort them silently in their failure. Give them encouragement to achieve heights in their life.

5.      Be a role model: Since the mother is the most important person in the life of a child, it is a golden chance for you to teach them what is good and what is bad. Be consistent in your ideas and try to convey it to them, but do not try to implement it purposely.

6.      Be patient: Take care to let them know that they are loved even when you are trying to make them disciplined. With a kid it is very easy to lose your temper, but be vigilant about not becoming too harsh.

7.      Be responsible:  Be strong enough to take all the responsibilities that come along with motherhood. Apart from this, it will be good if you can remember special days and dates of your kid.

8.      Let them understand their mistakes: Whenever you find something wrong in the behavior or actions, apart from blindly scolding them, first explain to them why it is wrong. That will help them not to repeat it.

9.      Be updated: It is not your educational qualification that matters to become a good mother, but your interest in learning and becoming up to date. Instead of asking your child to live the way you were in that age, try to live in the present.

10.  Respect your child: Respect their views and opinions. Consider their opinions when taking any family related decisions. Respecting their privacy is very important as this will help increasing their understanding and trust. 

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Asha Das

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