My article in oneindia.com: http://www.boldsky.com/relationship/marriage-and-beyond/2013/ways-ease-life-after-marriage-033159.html
Marriage is much more
than two individuals living together. It can be a union of different
traditions, cultures, families, beliefs and values. They may be perfectly made
for each other, but essentially there will be clashes in opinions and
interests. Knowing how to manage the differences between you and your partner
is always preferred than continuing to complain about it.
Enjoying a happy
married life will let you live your life to its fullest. Having harmony in each
and every situation is the most preferred case, but unfortunately that is not
possible always.Once you get into a married life, you
will be facing surprises and wonders all around. It can be
interesting,fescinating, shocking, miraculous or upsetting. Whatever it is, you
have to face it and manage it to make your married life flow smoothly.
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| 10 Tips For A Happy Married Life |
1.Understanding:
Admit that you both are different personalities and that living together for a
lifetime needs proper understanding. It
is important to let your partner know that you understand them, or else you
both will continue living in your own views and perceptions.
2.Be
open-minded: If you can keep your life transparent
and unbiased with your partner, you will be able to ease your married life to a
great extend. Be unprejudiced to share your feelings and thoughts with your
partner without presuming that your partner will not understand you.
3.Care
your in-laws: Love and care your partner’s family in
the same way as you do for your family. Realizing that marriage is not only the
union of two persons, but also the blending of two families will help you to
live a happy married life.
4.Give
space: You should respect the thoughts and beliefs of your
partner. Allow them to enjoy what they were enjoying till the day before your
marriage. Letting them enjoy their interests will contribute much for a happy
married life.
5.Give
respect: Giving respect to your partner is very important
for a happy married life. You both may have difference in your opinions and
priorities. But, everybody wants to get respect for what they are.
6.Communication:Communication
is a key factor for the success of a marriage. Take time to listen to your
partner. Be sure that you are clear in your conversations, instead of winding
up in between. Try to understand what they want to convey as it is.
7.Be
sincere:Being sincere is the best way to keep your mind
blissful and happy in a married life. If you say ‘I love you’, be sure that you
really mean it. Impersonation will never bring you peace and happiness in your
relation.
8.Spend
time together: Most relations are flopping only
because of the lack of togetherness. It’s your life and you have to live it to
its fullest. Spending enough time from your busy schedule will help you to
enjoy a happy married life.
9.Have
patience:Living with a totally new person will definitely put
you into many hideous and awful situations. But, screaming and fighting is not
the way to win in a married life. Try the route of love and patience.
10.Make
decisions together: Ask the opinion of your partner and
take decisions together in your personal, professional or family matters. This
will help to avoid conflicts and clash later and will offer you a serene
married life.
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