What We Expect From Our Partner?

My article in oneindia.com :   http://www.boldsky.com/relationship/love-and-romance/2013/what-we-expect-from-partner-032764.html

Harmony in thoughts and action is the most important thing to be happy in a family. As we know, all are not alike and different individuals have different streams of thought, hence complete harmony in everything is just an ideal case which never occurs. But this does not validate complete negation of others feelings just because you have a different opinion.  Co-operation, compassion and adjustments from the side of both partners can make a happy family.

Nothing will make your life more beautiful than loving and being loved. Getting a partner of your mind’s choice to share your love will make it even more exciting. Everyone will have expectations about their partner to be in a certain way which will make the relation successful. These are some of those desired characteristics every partner seeks in their dear ones.

·         Love: The first and foremost thing everyone wants from their partner is love. They expect love to be unconditional and everlasting. Everybody wants to feel that they are loved. Expressing love and affection will make a relation strong.

·         Understanding: Without proper understanding no relations can survive. Knowing the partner’s passion, interests, likes and dislikes can form a better understanding. Everyone wants their partner to provide some space and time to listen what they have to say.

·         Care: Either it is men or women it is essential to get good care from the partner to have a healthy relation. Emotional support from your partner will give you enough strength to overcome any crisis in the life.

·         Trust and sharing: Trust is the foundation of every relation. All partners expect to be trusted by their better half and to share any personal matters with trust to them. Once broken, it will not be the same, even if you think you succeeded in joining it back.

·         Respect: Everybody expects respect from their partner as an individual. Everyone wants their personality and interests to be properly considered by the partner.

·         Romantic attraction: Romance is the bonding force between partners and is essential to enjoy togetherness. Romance gives excitement which adds energy and life to the relation.

·         Appreciation: The desire of getting appreciated will be there in everybody’s mind. It is essential to keep up the inspiration towards any passion.

·         Friendship: It will be a dream for everyone to be considered as the best friend by the partner. It will avoid ego and clashes. It will help to express ourselves without being conscious of rights and wrongs.

·         Commitment: Another key factor that everybody seeks in their partner is commitment for an everlasting relationship.

As dreams and imaginations are not limited to one person, remember to satisfy your partner’s expectations as well.